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Michelle L. Casto, M.Ed. Whole Life Coach, Speaker & Author Brightlight Coaching |
What is a Life Purpose?
by Michelle L. Casto
The word purpose means to have intentional
results. When we are on purpose, we are making a conscious effort to be or create something. Usually what we really want to
be or do seems out of reach, "impossible." But we must remember that the word "impossible" with an apostrophe is actually
I’m (I am) possible. And you are! Dudley Lynch and Paul Lordis in their book Strategy of the Dolphin said this: "We
can define "purpose" in several ways. For one, when we know our purpose, we have an anchor- a device of the mind to provide
some stability, to keep the surprises of a creative universe from tossing us to and fro, from inflicting constant seasickness
on us. Or we can think of our purpose as being a master nautical chart marking shoals and rocks. Perhaps the most profound
thing about "being on purpose" is that when that is our status, our condition, and our comfort, we find our lives have meaning,
and when we’re "off purpose" we are confused about meanings and motives." A clearly defined life purpose provides meaning,
direction, and significance.
Your life purpose answers two essential questions: Who do I want to be? and
What do I want to do?
When we are living from our true soul’s purpose, we feel more alive-
filled with excitement, joy, and inner peace- in a word "contentment." We are more connected to one another as human beings
and more content with who we are and what we do. When we are "on purpose" we tap into a higher power, we have supernatural
support! The best things in life seem to be naturally attracted to us. When we are not on purpose, we try to do it all alone!
We grasp at straws, everything looks good- whether it is a new job, going to school, moving, finding another lover- anything
to fill the void of the extreme emptiness we feel inside. Not being on purpose leads to constant seeking- external things
to make you feel more fulfilled. Being on purpose leads to effortless contentment- an internal peace with what is unfolding
in your life. You have a feeling of "all is right with the world" and I have an important part to play!
Every human being has the universal purpose of learning how to love more.
Every human being has his or her unique purpose of helping to heal our planet and other people. Planet Earth is the ultimate
university for our souls, where you have the task of learning your lessons, showing love, and sharing gifts.
You can evolve yourself by understanding, accepting, and taking action to
live out your universal and unique life purposes. You were born to do something specific. A role and opportunity was entrusted
to you and you alone. If you don’t know your life purpose, you are still a diamond in the rough. Discovering one’s
life purpose is like cutting a diamond. Every gem quality diamond has within it a ready-made design, waiting to be discovered.
So do you. The secret is to discover and actualize your unique pattern. Like a diamond needs to be excavated to have worth,
you have to dig deep within yourself to discover your unique life purpose.
Characteristics of a Life Purpose-
Your Life Purpose . . .
• Lasts a lifetime, shaping you from birth to death, and usu- ally doesn’t change.
• Is bigger than you, connecting you to others and allowing you to share your gifts with
the world.
• Supports your values and beliefs, providing you an op- portunity to excavate your hopes,
dreams, aspirations and bringing them to the light of awareness.
• Provides structure for what you will be and do during your lifetime, you achieve maximum
performance + satis- faction, experience less-stress, and enjoy more meaning and authenticity.
• Is the theme of your life story, giving you more freedom to decide how to live out your
personal and professional roles.
As Thomas Edison once said, "If we all did the things we were capable of
doing, we would literally astound ourselves." To reach this place of soulful purpose, an inner shift must first occur. Change
starts on the inside, and as you awaken to the real part you are meant to play, you will develop confidence in knowing who
you are meant to be and what you are meant to do in the world. You will develop awareness of how big and bright you really
are. You will then begin to accept your part, articulating it to yourself and others, and finally taking action to live out
your purpose.
5 Steps to Discovering Your Soul Life Purpose
1. Awakening. This is the step where you awaken to the fact that you
have a bigger game to play in life- a unique personal and professional purpose. If you are awakening, you are beginning to
notice a restlessness in your soul, you may be having trouble sleeping, getting intuitive messages, having symbolic dreams.
2. Awareness. This is the step where you become aware that you need
to find out exactly what your life purposes are. If you are becoming aware, you are wanting to find out more about what else
there is to life, desiring more fulfillment and meaning, and feeling more awake about who you really are.
3. Acceptance. This is the step where you accept your life purposes
and come to terms with what it means to you and the world. If you are in acceptance, you are beginning to embrace the idea
that your life has purpose, realizing it is your job to be it and do it, and wanting to find out how.
4. Articulating. This is the step where you articulate your life purposes
by putting them into words. If you are articulating, you are putting in words what it is that you are meant to be and do,
starting to share it with others, and getting excited about it.
5. Acting. This is the step where you take action by moving towards the fulfillment
of your life purposes. If you are taking action, you have begun making major personal and professional life changes that are
more in alignment with who you are and what you are meant to do. •
Michelle L. Casto is a Whole Life Coach, speaker and author of Get Smart!
LearningBook Series. Her coaching practice is Brightlight Coaching. www.brightlightcoach.com Call for a Complimentary Coaching session (361) 232-3939 or coach@getsmartseries.com
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